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A young lady had to be able to conduct herself becomingly in a ballroom. By doing so she was able to display her conversational skills, her elegance of dress and deportment, her education in the steps of the dance, and, most importantly, was able to engage the interest of the opposite sex.
In a book on etiquette written in 1811 by ‘a Lady of Distinction’(1) , the pleasures of the ballroom were described thus:
The spectator of a well-ordered English ball sees, at one view, in a number of elegant young women, every species of female loveliness. He beholds the perfection of personal proportion. They are attired with all the gay habiliments of fashion and of fancy; and their harmonious and agile movements unfold to him, at every turn, the ever-varying, ever-charming grace of motion.
Thus far his senses only are gratified. But the pleasure stops not there. His best feelings receive their share also. He looks on each gay countenance, he sees hilarity in every step; he listens to their delighted converse, communicated by snatches; and, with a pleasure sympathizing with theirs, he cannot but acknowledge that dancing is one of the most innocent and rational, as well as the most elegant, amusements of youth.(2)
This description is as much about the opportunity provided for the young ladies to display their charms, as it is about dancing, but, of course, without that basic knowledge of the steps one would make a sad partner. Remember Elizabeth Bennet’s discomfort when obliged to dance with Mr Collins.
The first two dances, however, brought a return of distress; they were dances of mortification. Mr Collins, awkward and solemn, apologising instead of attending, and often moving wrong without being aware of it, gave her all the shame and misery which a disagreeable partner for a couple of dances can give. The moment of her release from him was exstasy.(3)
Mr Collins’s lack of skill on the dance floor displayed both his self-absorption and his faulty education. Children of gentle breeding would have had instruction in simple country dances from an early age and would have practised their dancing skills at informal gatherings of family and friends such as those Austen describes at the Coles’ party in Emma, or the Lucas’ party in Pride and Prejudice, or the evening entertainment at Uppercross in Persuasion.
So that members present would not be guilty of the same faults as Mr Collins, Julia Ermert then instructed them in the steps of a simple country dance.
Pamela Whalan
1 A Lady of Distinction, Regency Etiquette: The
Mirror of Graces (1811) R.L.Shep, Mendoccino, 1997
2 Ibid. pp. 175-176
3 Austen, Jane Pride and Prejudice (1813) The Folio Society,
London, 1975, pp. 80-81
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